Now, be honest with yourself.

Are you losing more because of fear?

Or Are you losing more because you wanted just a little more?

u mean by gambling secretly, most people like to keep to themselves while gambling and that why online casinos are popular because they provide just that and I'm not sure something like that can be considered as gambling in secret, it only works if the gambler is under age and if that's what you meant then you should have specified it rather than using the term you used because some underage don't even look their age so aren't even bothered when they visit gambling houses, it's not everyday people get asked to identify themselves especially when they don't look underage.

The match between Manchester City and arsenal is the most talked about match right now, the match will be an interesting one and it will be very entertaining to watch because the match will determine who we actually lift the premier League title this season the both teams will put in their best in the match, the players knows that this match will determine the winner of the premier League title as for me I'm supporting arsenal to win they deserve to lift the premier League title they have really tried and if they don't make it happen this season it will be very difficult for them to lift it again this is there chance.
I'm very sure Manchester City  wiy do everything possible to make sure that they win the match because the coach wants to lift the premier league title, Arsenal's coach should give the players a good orientation and use a very good tactics so they can win the match. I wish both of them good luck.

Unfortunately, the first half was not good enough for Como. Now Sassuolo leads 2-1 against Como, and the goal they scored occurred in a short time, at the end of the first half. 
Como tried to play more offensively, but their transition when their attacks were successfully stopped was not very good. They left gaps, which Sassuolo players managed to exploit to score 2 goals. Fortunately, in the first half's added time, Como reduced the goal difference.

I agree that they looked great against Inter Milan, their hold on ball standing at 62%, and outshooting leaders, and you have point that they could so easily fix current poor European show of Napoli had they made it through the tests. They have beaten strong teams, but not Big Three, to be exact, Inter, Juventus or AC Milan, yet this year due to sometimes lack of scoring goal. I think it is their brave way that is exciting but will need more strong middle part of team to stay up going through such strong plan of playing in both Italy and Europe next year. And, after all, you have reason to hope, now Como is in 5th place, and in excellent spot to become one of best teams of Europe.

I think when people write that it's not just about winning, it means they're gambling for the thrill and excitement.

 Their chances of winning the Champions is fair enough but there are teams like PSG and Bayern Munich that's a threat to winning that trophy, even Atletico Madrid won't be an easy opponent for Arsenal but with their performance in that competition, I have a feeling that they could reach the finals.

 Arsenal has really represented the EPL very well even if they don't win it, they've really tried. The teams I expected in the Premier League to go this far is Manchester City or Liverpool but Arsenal has done better than them and still unbeaten in the Champions League if am not mistaken, correct me if am wrong.

I agreed with you on this, gambling is for fun money and not to personally take it as a means to earn from it and as a means of problem solver, which its not the idea of why it was designed. And of course, if one wants what will be giving them money to sort out their bills, they should just look for other activities that will be serve them that purpose, which they can either learn a skill or invest in a business. But for gambling its better to just have fun and walk away, problem solve.

I don't see him saying anything like "crushed".    Como are a better team than Milan, Juventus and Roma this season. I might even say potentially better than Napoli...

The goal stats tell us this but of course the part they are losing is not having a wonderful squad right now. This is causing them to make simple point losses sometimes.

Even with their current condition I really like the way they fight. I hope Fabregas stays this summer.